Having issues or a deal you will not let your spouse know about is a sin against yourselves, your vow and God. And you will as well remember there is punishment for sin unless you repent. Secrecy in marital venture is like smearing your white-coloured attire with palm oil. Such a dress will not look good on you anymore as you become uncomfortable wearing it.

Marriage is a relationship for companionship, adjustment, co-operation, agreement, tolerance and trust. All should be done with affectionate love and mutual respect for one another.