Rejection is painful at whatever phase or level of life. It is a common candy people prefer to give than to receive. But it is not the end of the road for you, when you are given.

In husband and wife relationships the moment care and affection start to fail, the party that observes must quickly call the attention of the other to what he/she has noticed.

Change is constant in life; what excites you today may not catch your fancy tomorrow; from one phase of life to another a person discovers things which may affect his/her mindset either for good or bad. That is why life is an adventure. Human beings are free to make choices and decisions.

Naturally, you want to aspire for a higher or the best standard of what you already have. We are wired to go for more of any good thing of life. The word says ask that your joy may be full. In the area of knowledge and skill acquisition, business, wealth and health, it is allowed to desire for more. But in marriage, it is not permitted.

Marriage is sacred because God is involved. You may not see it that way, but that is the position. That is why marriage is for matured men and ladies. People who know and understand what marriage stands to achieve for them, go in search of one and once they discover their choice, they settle down to move on in other aspects of their aspirations.