Rejection in marriage, like leprosy or epilepsy, is not an incurable disease, which in this 21st century, has a remedy, provided you have the means to procure the right medication and the discipline it entails. As in my earlier articles, your good moral, positive progressive life and giving grace are the cure for rejection.

When you are confronted with discrimination and criticism in your marriage, the steps to take are:

1. Quit the marriage before it smears not only you but your children because it could be that bad or,

2. Prepare your mind to pay for your error.

Lest I forget, you need an inbuilt attribute of good moral as a strong weapon to use against your critics.

Your character speaks volumes. You cannot fake it. If you cannot control the blood of hatred flowing in your veins, you will lose out in the battle against rejection.

An intolerant, hostile, haughty, too quiet, hard looking person will  most of the time find himself/herself in a wrong marriage. Why? Because of his/her character. Self cent redness, unforgiving spirit, negative mindset – all these make you predict doom for your marriage and then you see yourself working or behaving your prophesy and mindset.

Marriage is a lifelong enterprise. And it is a business that cannot blossom in a hostile environment as applicable in the business world. The foreigners in the Niger Delta had to go despite their expertise knowledge, when the militants became hostile to them.