Over-rating yourself or under-rating your spouse, in a marriage relationship, could destroy the unity of your marriage. Likewise the mindset that your spouse should be perfect in all things – in an imperfect world. It is setting yourself up for disappointment. Your marriage can be likened to a fertile, virgin land bequeathed you. Whatever you plant will be manifested by the quality of your harvest. You must plant and water your seeds before you can expect harvest.

Seeking for a change of status or story, are you sure you are not working or praying at cross purposes with your spouse? He or she may not be comfortable with change now and it may be difficult to bring about the desired status.

This is why you need to look inwards and check the health of your marriage. For, without unity of the mind, things would get tougher and frustrating.

What can you say about the level of unity in your marriage? Average, good or none?

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